Sex Magick 101 || Crystal Pleasure
By Sam Alder
When it comes to physical intimacy whether it be with a long-time partner or someone you’re
newly dating, expectations always seem to be held to a ridiculous standard. There’s immense
pressure to look perfect, to not sweat, to hide your extra belly fat, to be vocal, but not so loud
that you freak the other person out. Then there’s the ever-daunting goal to make sure you and
the other person have a seamless orgasm. These stressors will only create blockages, virtually
making it impossible to maintain a sense of clarity in your body, mind, and aura. Without that
clarity, it’s going to be that much more difficult to engage in an exchange of energy with
another person through an act of intimacy.
I’ve recommended crystal healing to several clients to aid them in their journey of self-
discovery, confidence, and professional success. There’s no reason why the same principles
can’t be applied to amplifying sexual energy. When presented with this topic I was so excited to
be fulfilling my dream of being Carrie Bradshaw adjacent a la Sex and the City (minus the whole
being a needy and horrible friend part). Am I promising you that with these crystals you are
going to evolve into a fiery sex goddess? While that would be dope, that’s not what I’m
promising. However, I can assure that with proper use coupled with a sense of conviction you
will be that much more clear headed, and forthright. These are my top three crystals to use for
better intimacy and how to best use them.
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Tiger’s Eye – boosts confidence, fuels passion, aids in balance.
Smoky Quartz – soothing properties, helpful for those with emotional wounds, assists with the
free flow of energy throughout the body
Carnelian – stimulates creativity, vitality, and promotes courage + positive choices. Stimulates
action
Each of these crystals have a direct association with the sacral chakra (lower abdomen). A
healthy and active sacral chakra can promote trust, sexuality, and grounded energy. I chose
each of these crystals because of their sacral relationship, I find that when it comes to sex and
intimacy the sacral chakra is the most important next to the crown and heart centers.
Make sure to cleanse all crystals, I prefer lighting sage or Palo Santo and allowing the smoke to
cover the crystals completely for a minute or so. Place the stone in your receiving hand (I’m
right handed so my left is my receiving) and set an intention. This doesn’t have to be anything
complicated just simply assign a statement to each crystal.
My favorites are: I welcome all forms of love into my life. I will always be loved and provided for.
Abundance and infatuation flows through me.
After that I recommend keeping the crystals close to you as possible, in your pocket, bra, bag
etc. The closer they are to your body the better they will work. When engaging in intimacy they
can remain in the space being placed on a nearby table. Note: crystals act as a sponge and soak
up all sorts of energy. Make sure to cleanse them often to maintain their integrity. Daily is
preferred.
While this entire article is about nourishing a frequency of passion with a partner, there’s
nothing more important than maintaining that same sense of fire within yourself.
Five Gifts To Get The Witch In Your Life || Holiday Gift Guide
Happy Solstice Witches!
by Kirsten Renee
No matter what you celebrate this holiday season nothing says “I love you most” like gift giving! Every witch (old and young) loves to be thought of, especially when we get gifts that aid our specific crafts! With Yule, Kwanzaa, Christmas & other December holidays roll through it is easy to get confused about who gets what gift! Don’t you worry pal, I’ve got you covered for the mystic in your life. I’ve gathered a short shopping guide for those of you who have no idea how to buy for a witch!
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Crystals
Crystal healing is one of the many forms of healing within the spiritual community. Crystals not only provide different healing properties, but they’re also very pretty to look at! Don’t know anything about crystals that’s fine! Here’s a few basic crystals that you can purchase for your friends who like to do a little healing.
Rose Quartz : Creativity , Calm, Love, Raises self love
Citrine: Confidence, Passion, Manifestation, Abundance
Clear Quartz: Clarity, Transformation, Cleansing, Harmony
Selenite: Expand awareness, Motivation, Stimulates brain activity
Tigers Eye: Brings order, Balance, Strength, Enhances personal power
2. Tarot Cards
Not every witch uses Tarot as their preferred form of divination, however it is by far one of the most popular forms. Tarot reading has been done for CENTURIES and many mystic’s use them in their practice. I, for one am a huge fan of tarot and use it every day in my personal practice + in my business.
Here’s a few tarot decks that you can pick up for your intuitive friend!
3. A Visa Gift Card
Seriously, Witches love money because sometimes it costs money to get spell supplies! If you’re a proclaimed Dollar Tree witch like myself, then you understand! Sometimes we don’t just have random candles, Herbs, Jars, etc just laying around! You want to show your love for a witch, support her spell fund!
4. A Giftcard To a Bookstore
Witches love a good book and with so many witches publishing quality content these days there’s A LOT of books to add to the collection. So many books to choose from like;
“The Modern Herbal Dispensatory: A Medicine-Making Guide” by Thomas Easley, Steven Horne (Paperback)
“Wurkn Dem Rootz: Ancestral Hoodoo” by Medicine Man (Paperback)
“Jambalaya: The Natural Woman's Book of Personal Charms and Practical Rituals” by Luisah Teish
“Material Girl, Mystical World: The Now Age Guide to a High-Vibe Life” by Ruby Warrington
5. A Journal or Planner
Witches get shit done + 2019 is going to be a busy year for everyone! Help your favorite witch get ready for an exciting year by picking up a journal or workbook! Here’s a few top notch Journals and Planners to pick up.
Gift giving is such a beautiful form of showing love to the people who mean the most to you. No matter what you celebrate, the language of gift giving isn’t exclusive to the holidays! Have a happy solstice witches!