The Proverbs of Magickgal | Setting Core Values For Yourself
Having a core set of values is everything, what are yours?
by Kirsten Renee
As we moved into 2020 I found myself in a space of Hermit energy. With the New Moon in Capricorn and Solar Eclipse in Capricorn (12/26) my entire energy had been on reserve. I experienced massive life changes over the last three weeks of the 2010 decade. I found myself reliving old patterns, exposing my deepest fears in the name of romance, facing my own mortality head-on and so much more. During this space of divine reflection, I learned that my ego needs the biggest reality check and that I am capable of practicing detachment in healthy ways. 2020 is the beginning of the newest level of my journey and I am more than excited about that.
Because of this. I want to talk about a few pivotal life lessons that I learned during this last year of my life. Being 27 in 2019 I made it my goal to have a year dedicated to serving spirit, myself and my community. By doing that I had to experience a lot of heavy-hitting moments that changed the way I approached my life. Knowing what I know now, my current prayers have a more concrete and detailed list. There is proof in understanding the significance of your life experiences and how you allow those experiences to play out. Become an active participant in your desires, boundaries, wants and needs TODAY.
Because of this, I have created a list of Proverbs for Magickgal. This list is ever-growing because I am everchanging, check it out below and if it resonates let me know!
Never feel bad about being your fullest self around anybody | I learned this year that the way I show up (in whatever capacity that looks like) is absolutely okay. People who can love me within my boundaries and I can do the same with them. You are truly in control of who gets to receive you and give you energy back.
Acknowledge the patterns in your life! To keep it simple, there’s a whole lot of shit that you went through that you’ve yet to heal and recover. Do the work, pay attention to your triggers and what makes your foundation feel shaky. You are more than your old selves and to say that means to see it. Adulthood requires you to be responsible for your own shit, so do that… Don’t let your triggers be the reason why you don’t move forward.
Don’t settle for less! If you need more from the people around you, SAY IT! It’s absolutely okay to speak your needs to those who you interact with. When we choose to hold back we are choosing to have inauthentic interactions with folks we claim to care about. Why not be your honest self? Why not let people know what it is that you are needing, your loved ones are not mind readers
Spirituality is the blueprint to my success and having a healthy and CONSISTENT spiritual practice is key. I noticed that it was hard for me to stay focused on what my daily practice was while 27. I spent many days switching shit up and making it work for that moment. This was necessary work for me during that time, but I am leading a more organized and mindful life now.
Your truth is your truth and only you determine what that is. Don’t let ANYBODY (no matter how fine they are) make you believe that your feelings are false or not valid in any way. I recognized the source of my power this year, my emotions. The way that I feel is the driving force behind how I manifest. my greatest desires. Find your source and let your ancestors and angels teach you how to apply it directly to your life.
Goddess Lilith helped me see that my need for freedom and acceptance is not something bad to want. Freedom and understanding is something I have shamed myself for wanting for years. Now, now I know that if someone can’t give me that, I don’t need to be there. It’s okay to love folks how they need to be loved, but make sure you’re receiving that same energy.
Sex is fun, but not everyone needs access to your nether regions. As a reformed “all-access” hoe, becoming a “limited- access” hoe meaning I realized that just because they can wet the panties, doesn’t mean that they are worthy of that connection. I am a wildly sexual being and for that, I have always struggled with doing too much too soon. Not everyone’s energy deserves to be pleased by yours.
7A: Sex should never be used as a weapon.
7B: Sex should be had with yourself or with a partner(s) who value you.
7C: It’s okay to be a freak-hoe, own it and don’t apologize for it either.