The Proverbs of Magickgal | Setting Core Values For Yourself

by Kirsten Renee

As we moved into 2020 I found myself in a space of Hermit energy. With the New Moon in Capricorn and Solar Eclipse in Capricorn (12/26) my entire energy had been on reserve. I experienced massive life changes over the last three weeks of the 2010 decade. I found myself reliving old patterns, exposing my deepest fears in the name of romance, facing my own mortality head-on and so much more. During this space of divine reflection, I learned that my ego needs the biggest reality check and that I am capable of practicing detachment in healthy ways. 2020 is the beginning of the newest level of my journey and I am more than excited about that.

Because of this. I want to talk about a few pivotal life lessons that I learned during this last year of my life. Being 27 in 2019 I made it my goal to have a year dedicated to serving spirit, myself and my community. By doing that I had to experience a lot of heavy-hitting moments that changed the way I approached my life. Knowing what I know now, my current prayers have a more concrete and detailed list. There is proof in understanding the significance of your life experiences and how you allow those experiences to play out. Become an active participant in your desires, boundaries, wants and needs TODAY.

Because of this, I have created a list of Proverbs for Magickgal. This list is ever-growing because I am everchanging, check it out below and if it resonates let me know!

1. Never feel bad about being your fullest self around anybody | I learned this year that the way I show up (in whatever capacity that looks like) is absolutely okay. People who can love me within my boundaries and I can do the same with them. You are truly in control of who gets to receive you and give you energy back.

2. Acknowledge the patterns in your life! To keep it simple, there’s a whole lot of shit that you went through that you’ve yet to heal and recover. Do the work, pay attention to your triggers and what makes your foundation feel shaky. You are more than your old selves and to say that means to see it. Adulthood requires you to be responsible for your own shit, so do that… Don’t let your triggers be the reason why you don’t move forward.

3. Don’t settle for less! If you need more from the people around you, SAY IT! It’s absolutely okay to speak your needs to those who you interact with. When we choose to hold back we are choosing to have inauthentic interactions with folks we claim to care about. Why not be your honest self? Why not let people know what it is that you are needing, your loved ones are not mind readers

4. Spirituality is the blueprint to my success and having a healthy and CONSISTENT spiritual practice is key. I noticed that it was hard for me to stay focused on what my daily practice was while 27. I spent many days switching shit up and making it work for that moment. This was necessary work for me during that time, but I am leading a more organized and mindful life now.

5. Your truth is your truth and only you determine what that is. Don’t let ANYBODY (no matter how fine they are) make you believe that your feelings are false or not valid in any way. I recognized the source of my power this year, my emotions. The way that I feel is the driving force behind how I manifest. my greatest desires. Find your source and let your ancestors and angels teach you how to apply it directly to your life.

6. Goddess Lilith helped me see that my need for freedom and acceptance is not something bad to want. Freedom and understanding is something I have shamed myself for wanting for years. Now, now I know that if someone can’t give me that, I don’t need to be there. It’s okay to love folks how they need to be loved, but make sure you’re receiving that same energy.

7. Sex is fun, but not everyone needs access to your nether regions. As a reformed “all-access” hoe, becoming a “limited- access” hoe meaning I realized that just because they can wet the panties, doesn’t mean that they are worthy of that connection. I am a wildly sexual being and for that, I have always struggled with doing too much too soon. Not everyone’s energy deserves to be pleased by yours.

   • 7A: Sex should never be used as a weapon.

   • 7B: Sex should be had with yourself or with a partner(s) who value you.

   • 7C: It’s okay to be a freak-hoe, own it and don’t apologize for it either.

Magickgal's Guide to Color Magick

By Kirsten Renee

“Mere color can speak to the soul in a thousand different ways.” - Oscar Wilde

If you’re looking to spice up your magick life, try using color as a tool of manifesting and casting! Color magick (IMO) is a vital part of conjure/ witchcraft. Using colors whether it be in the form of candle magick or fashion/beauty magick, can really kick your witch shit up a couple of levels. As I’ve been studying conjure over the years, I’ve come to have a beautiful relationship with color magick. I mainly practice it when performing candle magick or when I’m feeling the need to boost up my energetic space and body. For example, when making rose water for the apothecary I like to use RED roses when creating a batch rooted in self-love and romance. Color is POWERFUL and when used correctly, it works with the universe to bring in (or get rid of) whatever it is that you need!

Check out this quick list of Colors and their properties;

Red |

Element: Fire

Astrological Correspondents: Aries, Scorpio, Mars, and influences Saturn

Chakra: Root (Also rules; Bones, Teeth, Nails, Colon, Prostate and of course, BLOOD!)

How to work with Red

• Need a little motivation or want to spice up your sex life? Working with a red candle can help you there!

• Been feeling low in energy? Wearing all red (although be careful of that depending on where you live!) can help boost your mood from sad gal to hot gal.

• Using flower essence like Roses to bring a sense of love, healing, and beauty! Keeping roses on your bedside table, altar, or even turning them into rose water can really boost your inner God/dess energy.

Orange |

Element: Fire

Astrological Correspondents: Sun, Leo & Sagittarius

Chakra: Sacral (Also rules; Pelvis, Kidneys, Uterus, Bladder, Lymph, Sperm, Adrenalin, & Digestion)

How to work with Orange

• If you’re feeling a little blue, put a little orange essential oil in the diffuser, add a glass of orange juice or a few slices in your meal.

• Wanting that new job, light an orange candle for road opening work! Add some cinnamon for sweetness and your favorite hot pepper to speed up the process.

• Wearing the color orange can also help raise your vibrations if you’re experiencing mental fogginess! Orange is great to wear on a day you’re having a creative block in your path.

Yellow |

Element: Air

Astrological Correspondents: Mercury, Taurus and Libra

Chakra: Solar Plexus ( Also rules: Lower Back, Spine, Gallbladder, Pancreas, Liver, Spleen, & Digestion)

How to work with Yellow

• When doing any form of healing work, lighting yellow candles on your altar space will open up space for your angels to come in and do work.

• If your workspace is looking a little dull and lacking that usual “go-getter” shine, add some yellow flowers and decor to your area! Help yourself not procrastinate, by making your working space more inviting.

• Having a hard time thinking positive thoughts, wearing yellow head-wraps, jewelry or nail polish to activate your inner shine.

Green |

Element: Earth

Astrological Correspondence: Venus, Mercury, Aquarius & Cancer

Chakra: Heart (Also rules: Upper Back, Spine, Shoulders, Breasts, & Lungs)

How To Work With Green

• If you’re doing any form of money magick (candle, gris-gris, etc) using the color Green is KEY to making shit pop. Green not only is the color most associated with money, but it also represents prosperity in spirituality.

• Starting a new job or going in for an interview? Wear a splash (or all) green to boost your “I’m that bitch” energy.

• Do a little Earth magick and get some plants! Not only are plants fantastic Lil beans, but they can spruce up the air quality in your home, produce nutrients for you AND just be an overall great addition to your life. * If you don’t have a green thumb, plastic succulents are always a good time!*

Blue |

Element: Water (Obviously)

Astrological Correspondents: Jupiter, Moon, Virgo, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces

Chakra: Throat (Also rules: Neck, Thyroid, Ears & Mind)

How To Work With Blue

• When wanting to deepen your meditation, light a blue candle(s) to really open up your connection.

• Crystals like Lapis Lazuli are great to use when your throat chakra is being blocked when you need extra help saying something important, or just a boost of confidence when speaking in public.

• Wearing blue clothing can help activate peace or release tension when feeling anxious or overwhelmed.

Indigo |

Element: N/A

Astrological Correspondence: Mercury, Saturn, Capricorn, Jupiter, Gemini, and Sagittarius

Chakra: Brow (Also rules: Face, Nervous System, Bones, Eyes, and Emotions)

How To Work With Indigo

• Feeling heart-broken? Wearing purple or lighting a purple candle can help carry you through that feeling.

• Want to work your “That’s So Raven” powers? Use purple crystals like amethyst to boost your own psychic skills!

• Using purple lighting is a great way to deepen a meditation as well.

Black |

Element: Earth

Astrological Correspondence: Saturn

Chakra: Teeth & Bones

How To Work With Black

• Want to seek balance? Using black and white candles during a time where balance is needed.

• Needing to rid your spirit of something or mourn an old version of yourself? Wearing black will assist you in your healing.

• Doing a binding ritual? Use a black candle to really amp up that removal energy.

White |

Element: N/A

Astrological Correspondence: Moon and Pisces

Chakra: Crown ( Also rules: Brain, Penal Gland & Sperm)

How To Work With White

• Having a wild time getting out of a dark place, light a white candle and ask The Divine to lift you out of that space. You can also call on Archangel Michael for protection and guidance.

• Hot tip! Wear all white after taking a spiritual bath for peace and welcoming in your new energy with love and light.

• Organizing your area with white accents, decore, etc can help stabilize the energy of your home, workspace, etc! Let the light in!

Alright pals, hope y’all enjoy this quick list of hot color tips!

Blessings!

A Year With Lilith: Healing my divine masculine, accepting my dark goddess energy + recovering

I’m really about to expose myself to y’all. Like full disclosure, if you’re in my family (or are uncomfortable with the idea that I’m a being who has sex) you probably don’t want to read this. (Also, I’m grown so get over it.) 

A year ago today I did an Ostara ritual where I invoked Goddess Lilith. If you’ve never heard of her, do yourself a solid and look her up. She was Adams first wife and the first woman to say “fuck these men” and mean it. I had been feeling her vibes a few months prior to that ritual. At the time I had been in a two-year period of not having sex of any kind with a partner. I was a solo pleaser and was perfectly fine being in that space. However, I didn’t really realize at the time of me doing that ritual that I was going to be face to face with some demons.  

See when you work with a Goddess like Lilith, you have to understand that she intends to break you down so that you can never not trust yourself. She gives us the ability to focus, gain knowledge in areas we thought were lost causes, and so much more. Once I did that ritual, I moved into a spiritual (and mental) space of letting go. I experienced so much grief and anger during those first few months. I lost my grandfather, my favorite place on Earth was feeling like my own personal hell, and I found myself attaching to people in really weird ways. 

The shit was so uncomfortable for me, but I told myself consistently that this has to happen in order for me to see this through.  As time went on, I was starting to see a lot of my previous romantic/emotional patterns pop back up. I ran into (nah like LITERALLY ran into) my elementary school crush who I was IN LOVE with lol. Like full on had wet dreams about this person as a child, loved them.  I should add that my Venus is in Sagittarius, so that should give you some context throughout this post. 

I ran into them in a public setting and what’s wild is that when I should have been super chill. I wasn’t, I had reverted back to 8-year old me. The uncomfortable, insecure, awkward and emotionally unstable little girl. Who always thought that a boy like him would never like a girl like her. The one who literally cried when he asked her out one day and broke up with her the next. The one who wrote about him in journal because her very active Pisces rising is a deep romantic. I realized that I had so much trauma held inside from that shit. I didn’t know it then, but for the next couple of months Lilith was going to test me even more.

Other profound moments happened, especially the one where she came to me in a dream. Held a ceremony for me, invited people I love who are in my life currently and those who have passed on. That night in the astral realm, I got my big witch crown and a whole lot of responsibilities. I knew that my work was just beginning and in order to do that I had to heavily heal my romantic self and find a middle ground between my divine masculine and feminine. I started being intentional about what I wanted to be like as a partner and what I wanted in a partner. I got so specific I mean like “ someone who loves me within my boundaries.” Type of shit.

I found myself just chilling after writing that list, I met some cool people, but nothing was sizzling my soul ya know? That was until I had a dream in November about myself and this unknown man. We were sitting in his car, chilling and talking. I woke up feeling so loved, cared for and deeply seen. I thought about that dream a lot, like a lot a lot over the next couple of weeks. I knew that whoever he was, he was very real. It clicked a little while later that I did in fact know that man. I met him at this class I started going to with a friend. He was really intriguing to me, when the first time I saw him I told my homegirl that he reminded me of Lucifer. Very pretty, but also extremely deceiving and a lot of trouble. I hadn’t even spoken to him at that point, but my intuitive self stays knowing what’s up.

Somehow though, my immediate thoughts went out the window and I ended up tangled up in some shit that I can’t fully explain. See when you’re working with Lilith expect the devil to show up at some point. I knew that going into this that I would face some new shit, some shit that matched my level of power. Some shit that, well … would change me completely. What I didn’t know is that I was walking into the dismantling of my very being. What I didn’t know is that this person would be the last test and a blessing.

I learned that I am selfish, irate, hot and cold, extremely vulnerable, needy, wild, even more slutty than I originally thought, and a whole lot of other things. He gave me everything and nothing all at once, he never lied though. He always tells me the truth, even if it’s harsh. I fell in love with him in three days (again, Sag Venus over here) and didn’t look back. However, I also learned that I want what I want and deserve that. I found that I over-explain myself and my needs and learned how to put up boundaries. I also learned that Libra’s are mirrors and my energy clearly sets the tone for chaos to form.

I realized that even though I spent time in isolation pre-Lilith , I still am learning to not use sex as a weapon to get what I want. I learned that I can fully love someone even if they don’t love me back and that’s okay. I realized that I am not responsible for anyone else’s actions … only my own. I also realized that satan does have a son and I love him a whole lot.

Like Lilith though, I am above all else a Goddess of the middle ground. My shadow and light are learning how to intertwine themselves together. I am capable of loving intensely, intentionally and honestly. I am also capable of loving from a distance, from knowing when to choose me before anyone. Capable of knowing when to apologize for creating chaos.

This is my apology and also the beginning of a beautiful manifesto. This is my way of welcoming you all into a new era of my life. Let’s ride this Saturn Return of mine with love, growth and light in mind.

blessed be.

Doing The Work | November 2019 Tarotscope

by Kirsten Renee

The Chariot and The Lovers Reversed

Have you noticed that a lot of the spiritual advice you receive online is always telling you to heal your trauma or to push pass boundaries that were created for you? As good as the work of shadow healing is, at some point you’ve got to stop sitting and start moving. The ultimate guide to divine peace and power is knowing how to manifest with what aligns with your current needs. If you’re constantly sitting within your shadows, all you will get is darkness and emotional baggage. Now hear me out, I’m not saying don’t ever cross the threshold of your dark side. What I’m saying is learn how to use what you’ve learned beneath, to guide you above. “As above, so below.” You must meet yourself, your spirits and ancestors, light and dark in the middle.

Shadow work is null if the lessons aren’t turned into actions, as a healer my best life lesson came when I realized that I am also learning while I share knowledge. Same goes for you, you know yourself better than anyone now it’s time for you to introduce that person to the world. You’ve done the work with identifying your boundaries and understanding why you have them in the first place. In order for you to really see how that works, you have to vocalize them. Your story, your triumphs, your pain, your wins and loses all have given you the gift of teaching. Share what you’ve learned , because that is how we can help each other heal.

Below I have created “mindfulness affirmations” for each astrological element group in relation to each tarot card.

The Chariot - Things you should be mindful of.

• It isn’t a competition, you are not competing with anyone, not even yourself. You are successful because you work hard and you trust your path, not because you are better than the next. Humble thyself. (Leo, Sagittarius and Aries)

• When are you going to start pouring all your energy into yourself for real? You constantly show the world that you’ve got it all together, but at some point you’ve actually got to get it together. Stop faking the funk and take control over your shit for real. The only one pumping the breaks on your growth is you baby. (Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio)

• Keep fucking going! You are right where you need to be to win this race. Having the faith behind the drive is what keeps you motivated. However, don’t be so into getting ahead that you forget to handle your present business. Be focused on your work, finances and health during this time! You’re going to need to be in tiptop shape over the next few weeks! (Aquarius, Libra and Gemini)

• Having a community is necessary for your existence. You may think that working alone is what works for you, but it’s not. You are collaborative by nature, you are someone who people listen to and vibe with because you know shit. Don’t pass up the chance to tap into that energy or sense of community. You will be able to do more meaningful work if you surround yourself with people who align with your creative and authentic self. (Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo)

The Lovers Reversed - A look at your relationships (read moon sign).

• It’s funny how you never notice the people who notice you. All you ever see is who isn’t giving you attention and that’s where your anxiety and warped versions of folks comes in. Stop trying to make everything and everyone align with you and your needs. The people who root for you and love you within your boundaries are who you should be pouring into. At some point, you’ll realize that most folks who you think are ignoring you are actually just intimidated by your energy. Rock with those who can handle your vibe! (Leo, Sagittarius and Aries)

• Let the people who love you. help you during this time. You think that because you feel so deeply that no one else can understand the magnitude of your emotions. You’re wrong, there are multiple sources and outlets for you right now. Whether that is therapy, a new spiritual practice, books, music, etc. . . You are being called to expose your emotional self at a level that you form a healthier relationship with yourself. (Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio)

• You are often not aware of just how powerful you are and that’s crazy when everyone around you does. You collect people who reflect your inner self and that’s how it has always been. Your energy manifests itself in the relationships that you find yourself in. If you’re around people that make you feel low ask yourself why you’re allowing that energy to be around you. Checking how you treat yourself is how others will follow suit! (Aquarius, Libra and Gemini)

• Trusting people is something you don’t take lightly and that’s to be expected when you see shit for what it really is. However, your skepticism can also cause you to miss out on some really special moments. Allow your relationships (especially romantic ones) find their flow naturally and with ease. It’s easy to want to know what is going to happen or how something is going to happen. Right now though, you need to take it easy and let The Divine lead you to great heights. Trust this process, because whether you realize it or not someone/something is coming to shake your shit up and you need it. (Taurus, Capricorn and Virgo)

Journal Queries:

1. How can I show up for my needs and boundaries while also vocalizing them to my loved ones?

2. How am I participating in my relationships with others and myself?

3. Am I saying no to things out of fear or necessity?

4. What does my current journey need from me in this moment?

If you want a deeper reading into the cosmos via Tarot, book a reading with me!

xx

Kirsten

The Power of Written Words + Manifesting Your Best Life

By Kirsten Renee

You know the saying “hushed mouths won’t get fed.”? Essentially it means, that person is not a mind reader and if you want something from them all you need to do is ask. The Universe works in the same way, if you want your prayers to be heard, you’ve got to be confident in saying them! You can’t just assume that God/dess, spirit guides, ancestors and angels know what it is that you want. You’re a part of your spiritual team and it’s best you show up as a teammate! Being afraid to claim what you instinctively know is yours is what will keep it out of your reach. That and not putting any physical work into manifesting your goals will stifle your aspirations.  You are more than capable of making a conscious choice as to how you want to maneuver your life. 

There is power in the written word and a direct link to what it is that you feel and need. Keeping journals, planners, grimore’s etc. are a few ways that people manifest their magick.  When you keep record of what your desires are, it is easier for you to prioritize them! When something is consistently being repeated (especially prayers/spells). You are showing the universe that you are serious about your life choices and confident in what you feel.  Your wording is most important, especially when doing intentional manifesting! Saying phrases like “ I can’t wait” or “I am ready to” give off a signal that you don’t understand the first rule of the practice! The key to manifesting is living in what you want presently. Viewing your desires from the future or past tense makes them unattainable.

Use phrases such as “I am ______ now” or “ I am receiving of this blessing in the present day”.  Using words that are connected to the ‘now’ are KEY! Claiming your desires (all those that are with good intention!) as yours, is showing that you feel that you are deserving of this. Now, I’m in no way saying that what you want will pop up overnight! You’ve got to stay consistent with this practice. Magick is something that has a current, it is alive and well. So if you want to work yours, build a relationship with it! The perfect place to start is by doing one of the exercises I included below!

Ways to Fire Up Your Manifesting Magick

Create + Consecrate an Intention Journal

Binding a notebook/journal to yourself is something that you can do! I use this method and I do a ritual each time I use a new journal. Before doing this (or any type of magick) make sure that you protect your space!  Cast a circle, remove distractions, pray over your space, etc! Make your spell work area protected by spirit and connected to you! 

• Pray over it! Ask your spirit team to step forward and join you in the blessing of this manifesting tool. Use this time to verbalize your intentions of that specific journal, be mindful of what comes up subconsciously as well! Journals are a physical representation of our emotions, no matter what they are!

• Anoint it with blessed oils/spray, sacred smoke, or a Sigil! I always wipe the covers of my journals with rose water! I’ll also pass it through the smoke of herb blends! 

• Write a letter/prayer note to yourself on the first few pages! Speak to yourself as your therapist, friend and spirit guide! Use this time to really call out your desires directly and don’t hold back! This is how you finalize what it is that you want!

• Make time for your journal! Intentionally using a journal is a daily practice that you find a flow within! Whether you do it first thing in the morning, on your lunch break or before bed! Get your manifesting time in because every day is a new miracle!

Using Numerology (and Technology) For Pop Up Reminders

Everyone knows to make a wish at 11:11 because it’ll bring you luck, it sounds crazy but it’s true!  11:11 and other mirroring numbers are often referred to as angel numbers! Personally my angels use these numbers to communicate with me. Each part of your spiritual team uses different forms of communication! The knowledge of numbers and their frequencies can always be of assistance when manifesting!

• Set an alarm with a mantra as the title! Using something like “love flows to me with ease, love flows from me with ease.” or even “as above, so below” are great starters!  You can create your own mantras as well, something that resonates with your spirit. Using times like 3:33 or even 12:12 can be used to amplify the energy of your mantra!

• Using apps like Tiny Spark, Golden Thread Tarot and The Pattern can give you a deeper dive into yourself!  I often look at my craft apps first thing in the morning! It’s like my newspaper, I read my horoscope, pull two digital tarot cards, and read my devotionals!

• Naturally noticing angel numbers appear in your everyday life! Angels love to communicate and when you create a steady relationship  with them, you open up new portals. By inviting them into your space, you are allowing your frequencies to link up.

Using Reflective Magick

One of my favorite ways to manifest, is by casting mirror (reflective) spells! Writing on mirrors of all sizes can directly link you to your deepest self. You want to root yourself into your wants, so look yourself in the eye and get to it! Reflective magick can be something as simple as writing a word of confidence on your compact mirror. It could also look like spraying every mirror you own with rose water and casting the intent of honesty onto it.

• Make enchanted/anointed water!  I often like to charge my first cup of water for the day with crystals! Leaving it out overnight or letting it sit in the sunlight a bit before consuming, crystal infused water can help magnify your daily frequency!

• An enchantment ritual is another great way to receive and tune into the good vibes! I do enchantment rituals often! All you’ll need is a quiet/centered space, a mirror (that has been consecrated/blessed), and an item(s) that you want to bounce back onto.

               Instructions

— Uplift the energy of the room (pray, dance, sing, meditate,etc) and cast your circle/pray for protection.

— Call down your spirit team and ask them for assistance in enchanting this item. You can choose anything, preferably something that you interact with every day! Like Jewelry,  glasses, lipstick/chap stick, hand/ bags, your wallet, etc.

— Spray your mirror with blessed oil/water.  I like to use a rose/Florida water mixture, to amplify the love of my spell and to purify the item.

— You can write down a prayer/spell/word.etc onto the mirror or you can skip this step! Whatever you feel most comfortable doing!

— Place your object on the mirror, say your blessings and intentions onto it! Be specific with what you bestow upon it, this energy will be strong and you will carry it with you daily!

— You can leave this out in the sun/moon for three days! I like to do it during a full moon cycle. The brightness of the sun and moon amplify the energy of the object!

• Draw a sigil somewhere on your body! I can’t be the only one who wrote on her legs and clothes in middle school! Sigils are a great way to keep your mantras with you throughout the day.  You can draw/ stitch siglis onto your jacket, keep a drawing inside of your wallet, or just draw it somewhere on your body!

Remember, manifesting isn’t hard nor is it just for the witches on the block. Anyone can practice and make manifesting a part of their daily lives! Like Grandma Agatha (RIP) said in ‘HalloweenTown’  “You’ve got to want something and then let yourself have it!” Don’t be afraid to get oddly specific with your desires, now isn’t the time to play shy with The Universe. Share this post with a friend and invite them to find their own journey with manifesting too!  Pour love into yourself and your communities!

Blessed be.