The Proverbs of Magickgal | Setting Core Values For Yourself
Having a core set of values is everything, what are yours?
by Kirsten Renee
As we moved into 2020 I found myself in a space of Hermit energy. With the New Moon in Capricorn and Solar Eclipse in Capricorn (12/26) my entire energy had been on reserve. I experienced massive life changes over the last three weeks of the 2010 decade. I found myself reliving old patterns, exposing my deepest fears in the name of romance, facing my own mortality head-on and so much more. During this space of divine reflection, I learned that my ego needs the biggest reality check and that I am capable of practicing detachment in healthy ways. 2020 is the beginning of the newest level of my journey and I am more than excited about that.
Because of this. I want to talk about a few pivotal life lessons that I learned during this last year of my life. Being 27 in 2019 I made it my goal to have a year dedicated to serving spirit, myself and my community. By doing that I had to experience a lot of heavy-hitting moments that changed the way I approached my life. Knowing what I know now, my current prayers have a more concrete and detailed list. There is proof in understanding the significance of your life experiences and how you allow those experiences to play out. Become an active participant in your desires, boundaries, wants and needs TODAY.
Because of this, I have created a list of Proverbs for Magickgal. This list is ever-growing because I am everchanging, check it out below and if it resonates let me know!
Never feel bad about being your fullest self around anybody | I learned this year that the way I show up (in whatever capacity that looks like) is absolutely okay. People who can love me within my boundaries and I can do the same with them. You are truly in control of who gets to receive you and give you energy back.
Acknowledge the patterns in your life! To keep it simple, there’s a whole lot of shit that you went through that you’ve yet to heal and recover. Do the work, pay attention to your triggers and what makes your foundation feel shaky. You are more than your old selves and to say that means to see it. Adulthood requires you to be responsible for your own shit, so do that… Don’t let your triggers be the reason why you don’t move forward.
Don’t settle for less! If you need more from the people around you, SAY IT! It’s absolutely okay to speak your needs to those who you interact with. When we choose to hold back we are choosing to have inauthentic interactions with folks we claim to care about. Why not be your honest self? Why not let people know what it is that you are needing, your loved ones are not mind readers
Spirituality is the blueprint to my success and having a healthy and CONSISTENT spiritual practice is key. I noticed that it was hard for me to stay focused on what my daily practice was while 27. I spent many days switching shit up and making it work for that moment. This was necessary work for me during that time, but I am leading a more organized and mindful life now.
Your truth is your truth and only you determine what that is. Don’t let ANYBODY (no matter how fine they are) make you believe that your feelings are false or not valid in any way. I recognized the source of my power this year, my emotions. The way that I feel is the driving force behind how I manifest. my greatest desires. Find your source and let your ancestors and angels teach you how to apply it directly to your life.
Goddess Lilith helped me see that my need for freedom and acceptance is not something bad to want. Freedom and understanding is something I have shamed myself for wanting for years. Now, now I know that if someone can’t give me that, I don’t need to be there. It’s okay to love folks how they need to be loved, but make sure you’re receiving that same energy.
Sex is fun, but not everyone needs access to your nether regions. As a reformed “all-access” hoe, becoming a “limited- access” hoe meaning I realized that just because they can wet the panties, doesn’t mean that they are worthy of that connection. I am a wildly sexual being and for that, I have always struggled with doing too much too soon. Not everyone’s energy deserves to be pleased by yours.
7A: Sex should never be used as a weapon.
7B: Sex should be had with yourself or with a partner(s) who value you.
7C: It’s okay to be a freak-hoe, own it and don’t apologize for it either.
The Power of Written Words + Manifesting Your Best Life
A few tips from our resident witch on how to make manifesting your new bff!
By Kirsten Renee
You know the saying “hushed mouths won’t get fed.”? Essentially it means, that person is not a mind reader and if you want something from them all you need to do is ask. The Universe works in the same way, if you want your prayers to be heard, you’ve got to be confident in saying them! You can’t just assume that God/dess, spirit guides, ancestors and angels know what it is that you want. You’re a part of your spiritual team and it’s best you show up as a teammate! Being afraid to claim what you instinctively know is yours is what will keep it out of your reach. That and not putting any physical work into manifesting your goals will stifle your aspirations. You are more than capable of making a conscious choice as to how you want to maneuver your life.
There is power in the written word and a direct link to what it is that you feel and need. Keeping journals, planners, grimore’s etc. are a few ways that people manifest their magick. When you keep record of what your desires are, it is easier for you to prioritize them! When something is consistently being repeated (especially prayers/spells). You are showing the universe that you are serious about your life choices and confident in what you feel. Your wording is most important, especially when doing intentional manifesting! Saying phrases like “ I can’t wait” or “I am ready to” give off a signal that you don’t understand the first rule of the practice! The key to manifesting is living in what you want presently. Viewing your desires from the future or past tense makes them unattainable.
Use phrases such as “I am ______ now” or “ I am receiving of this blessing in the present day”. Using words that are connected to the ‘now’ are KEY! Claiming your desires (all those that are with good intention!) as yours, is showing that you feel that you are deserving of this. Now, I’m in no way saying that what you want will pop up overnight! You’ve got to stay consistent with this practice. Magick is something that has a current, it is alive and well. So if you want to work yours, build a relationship with it! The perfect place to start is by doing one of the exercises I included below!
Ways to Fire Up Your Manifesting Magick
Create + Consecrate an Intention Journal
Binding a notebook/journal to yourself is something that you can do! I use this method and I do a ritual each time I use a new journal. Before doing this (or any type of magick) make sure that you protect your space! Cast a circle, remove distractions, pray over your space, etc! Make your spell work area protected by spirit and connected to you!
Pray over it! Ask your spirit team to step forward and join you in the blessing of this manifesting tool. Use this time to verbalize your intentions of that specific journal, be mindful of what comes up subconsciously as well! Journals are a physical representation of our emotions, no matter what they are!
Anoint it with blessed oils/spray, sacred smoke, or a Sigil! I always wipe the covers of my journals with rose water! I’ll also pass it through the smoke of herb blends!
Write a letter/prayer note to yourself on the first few pages! Speak to yourself as your therapist, friend and spirit guide! Use this time to really call out your desires directly and don’t hold back! This is how you finalize what it is that you want!
Make time for your journal! Intentionally using a journal is a daily practice that you find a flow within! Whether you do it first thing in the morning, on your lunch break or before bed! Get your manifesting time in because every day is a new miracle!
Using Numerology (and Technology) For Pop Up Reminders
Everyone knows to make a wish at 11:11 because it’ll bring you luck, it sounds crazy but it’s true! 11:11 and other mirroring numbers are often referred to as angel numbers! Personally my angels use these numbers to communicate with me. Each part of your spiritual team uses different forms of communication! The knowledge of numbers and their frequencies can always be of assistance when manifesting!
Set an alarm with a mantra as the title! Using something like “love flows to me with ease, love flows from me with ease.” or even “as above, so below” are great starters! You can create your own mantras as well, something that resonates with your spirit. Using times like 3:33 or even 12:12 can be used to amplify the energy of your mantra!
Using apps like Tiny Spark, Golden Thread Tarot and The Pattern can give you a deeper dive into yourself! I often look at my craft apps first thing in the morning! It’s like my newspaper, I read my horoscope, pull two digital tarot cards, and read my devotionals!
Naturally noticing angel numbers appear in your everyday life! Angels love to communicate and when you create a steady relationship with them, you open up new portals. By inviting them into your space, you are allowing your frequencies to link up.
Using Reflective Magick
One of my favorite ways to manifest, is by casting mirror (reflective) spells! Writing on mirrors of all sizes can directly link you to your deepest self. You want to root yourself into your wants, so look yourself in the eye and get to it! Reflective magick can be something as simple as writing a word of confidence on your compact mirror. It could also look like spraying every mirror you own with rose water and casting the intent of honesty onto it.
Make enchanted/anointed water! I often like to charge my first cup of water for the day with crystals! Leaving it out overnight or letting it sit in the sunlight a bit before consuming, crystal infused water can help magnify your daily frequency!
An enchantment ritual is another great way to receive and tune into the good vibes! I do enchantment rituals often! All you’ll need is a quiet/centered space, a mirror (that has been consecrated/blessed), and an item(s) that you want to bounce back onto.
Instructions
— Uplift the energy of the room (pray, dance, sing, meditate,etc) and cast your circle/pray for protection.
— Call down your spirit team and ask them for assistance in enchanting this item. You can choose anything, preferably something that you interact with every day! Like Jewelry, glasses, lipstick/chap stick, hand/ bags, your wallet, etc.
— Spray your mirror with blessed oil/water. I like to use a rose/Florida water mixture, to amplify the love of my spell and to purify the item.
— You can write down a prayer/spell/word.etc onto the mirror or you can skip this step! Whatever you feel most comfortable doing!
— Place your object on the mirror, say your blessings and intentions onto it! Be specific with what you bestow upon it, this energy will be strong and you will carry it with you daily!
— You can leave this out in the sun/moon for three days! I like to do it during a full moon cycle. The brightness of the sun and moon amplify the energy of the object!
Draw a sigil somewhere on your body! I can’t be the only one who wrote on her legs and clothes in middle school! Sigils are a great way to keep your mantras with you throughout the day. You can draw/ stitch siglis onto your jacket, keep a drawing inside of your wallet, or just draw it somewhere on your body!
Remember, manifesting isn’t hard nor is it just for the witches on the block. Anyone can practice and make manifesting a part of their daily lives! Like Grandma Agatha (RIP) said in ‘HalloweenTown’ “You’ve got to want something and then let yourself have it!” Don’t be afraid to get oddly specific with your desires, now isn’t the time to play shy with The Universe. Share this post with a friend and invite them to find their own journey with manifesting too! Pour love into yourself and your communities!
Blessed be.